If only you were here

Hey guys. It's been a while. Work has been a little hectic. How are y'all doing. Madam V (one of my friends) and I spoke about purpose in life. She said that for long, all we talk about is relationships. She said we should focus on ourselves for once and work on becoming better people and I agreed with her completely. She asked me about my purpose and I said I want to make an impact in young peoples lives through teaching and she told me she wants to start something that focuses on impacting the lives of young women asserting views on finance, Relationship with God and healthy living. I can't wait to be a part of her program. My word for you today is to learn something new every day. Don't give up on your dreams. Work hard and be kind to everyone around you. As for me and Ayo,things get worse as the days go by, but yeah, I guess this is destiny and I must accept it like that. Have a lovely Saturday.. With Love, Tolu

Hey guys. Good afternoon. How is your day going. I am a little excited today. I got admission to undertake graduate studies. All Glory to God. Something struck me today - Psalm 139 vs 23-24. Forgive me for paraphrasing.. It says, Search me o Lord,cross examine me, see if I have done anything wrong and guide me on the road to eternal life. My prayer for you today is that God guides you on the road to eternal life. Hmmm,about Ayo (unrequited love guy), I am doing good, really good. Slowly but surely, I know I will get over everything. I have forgiven myself and I have forgiven him. However, we don't speak at all. Too bad really, because I miss the friendship but oh well. My aunt gave me a book centered on 165 questions to ask an intending spouse before tying the knot. I promise to share some with you as time goes on. It is a lovely book written by the late Bimbo Odukoya. Oh well guys, gotta go. I have some assignments to finish. With love, Tolu.

Day 2... Hi guys. Happy Sunday. Hope you are enjoying your day. My day has been kinda weird. Church service was very interesting. The preacher likened the blood of Jesus to a Fuller's soap and said that the blood of Jesus penetrates every nook and cranny of our soul and can wipe us clean, completely clean. Today got me thinking about stuff. I mean did I do the right thing? Should I have broken up, should I have tried harder. These are questions I have been asking myself. Is this regret rearing its ugly head or I am going through a relapse. Maybe I am just feeling lonely. Johnson(not real name) is still in Jos and he is as busy as ever. So it is just me here with loads of work from the office. Slowly but surely, God and time will make the sadness go away. With love Tolu.

Day 1.. Hey guys. It is the raining season so rain rain and more rain. Local government elections is holding today so there are restrictions. I have just been lazying around. I termed today as Day 1 as I just started moving on from a very painful one-sided relationship. I promise to tell you the story as each day comes. Right now, I feel okay moving on. I think it is very important to write a mental list of what you want in a partner so that you don't settle for less. I settled for way below all levels and it just led to pain and heartbreak. I am turning a new page now with the help of God. I have a close male friend (don't let your mind go far), it is platonic. He is a very sweet, down to earth and understanding guy. His name is Johnson. He has a major project now, so he is unavailable for now. Hope your day is going well.. With Love, Tolu.

Hey guys. I am so excited to start this blog. Hehe. This blog is dedicated to writing real life experience on relationship with God, people.. I hope you enjoy it and you are willing to share your stories with me too.